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haha good one! my next child if I have a girl will be Isabella Marieanne and if i have another boy his name will be Kellan or Edward.

Crimson wrote:Haha. I can admire from afar!
My womanly instincts are obviously out of whack.

I know exactly what you mean. I used to be really awkward around children and no one ever let me babysit. I don't know why.. but I just got a job as a tutor for K-8 and that has really helped me.. I don't know "Learn to deal"

As far as babies everyone in my family is old and all grown up except my sister's son he is 3 now and helping her raise him definitely taught me a lot about small children haha.

For instance, I babysat him once for like an hour and a half (any longer and it would have been hazardous) he keep throwing diapers at me and I thought he just was trying to make a mess.... uhh haha he was trying to tell me to change his diaper.

he he he i have kids [twins !!] theyre names are aiyanna alexis and victoria alexis [my husbands name is alexander and i really thought alexis was a cute name] anyways pregnancy is horrible esp the first couple of months the morning sickness and all you could eat was saltine crackers and ginger ale lolz and then youll just barf it all out after ..guh and yes the stretch marks i got em lolz was horrible i used to be small and skinny and my stomach just grew out of proportion lolz anyways after all that its wonderful to be a mum eventhough it was unplanned ..i remember when i like missed my period for like 3 months and then i started vomiting frequently actually i thought i just had the stomach flu so i went to a walk in clinic then they gave me some prescription medicine or something then that ddnt work so i had to go back and then doctor told me to go get a pregnancy test ... so i did and after 3 days or waiting anxiously we got the results and huzzah im pregnant ... the doctor took me in her office closed the door behind her and ddnt even let me get a chance to breathe and like prepare myself she just blurted out "youre pregnant!!" i couldnt breathe at first i went all cold and numb then i snapped myself out of it and then she asked me "are you keeping it?" and my automatic answer was "of course" i mean i wasnt ready for a baby havent even gone to college yet .. but i wasnt gunna kill my baby ... i mean it was my i mean our mistake i should live with it [stupid couldnt buy condoms before doing it lolz ] anyways you guys are prolly bored but yeah after 2 months my doctor told me my stomach was unbelievably huge for 2 months pregnant so i got an ultrasound and huzzah 2 heartbeats we have twins .... my boyfriend but my hubby now almost died on the spot with a heart attack lolz anyways okay this is getting a bit long but yeah now theyre my most precious .. my everything and yes im in college now lolz its hard having to juggle both the kids and school but im getting used to it sorry its so long lolz

I'm a sucker for kids, I seem to be like a small children magnet...And I can't help loving them.

I know I'd love to have my own someday, but, at the same time, I'm not too keen on pregnancy and giving birth, after seeing the size of some babies born, and how I feel particularly a bit tiny for any of that to be problem free. >.< lol

So, currently I would prefer adoption...I know when I'm older and with the right person I'd probably change my mind. But, as I cannot see that in my future since "the right people" seem rare. The way my life has been, I REALLY don't want kids with someone unless I know they are the right person. Theres so many conflicts little kids shouldn't have to deal with that I have had to. either way, adoption seems like the best option for me. For now.

Uhm actually everyone's pregnancy's are different twilightbelle...For example, when I had my son, I didnt throw up at all, I was nauseous but that was it. Nausea and cravings were the only things I experienced. Now since you had morning sickness, Im sure the road to motherhood was a bit more difficult. But like I said, you have to realize every pregnancy is different and every woman's body reacts differently to the sudden hormonal changes. Pregnancy doesnt suck...It just makes you a stronger woman.

And I LOVE my stretch marks...Dont get me wrong, they do hinder me from wearing a bikini but I see stretch marks as my pregnancy wounds...I see myself as a soldier overseas who got war wounds...When soldiers come back and have wounds they get purple hearts and are proud as can be...Well, I got stretch marks and Im as proud as can be.

Yeah, you gain weight, what else would you expect? I was tiny when I got pregnant...I was 5 foot even and weighed 95 pounds...Now Im still the same heighth wise, but I am back down to 105 pounds...So maybe Im just delisional but I had to work my ass off to lose that weight...You cant lose something like weight unless you work it off...

I dont mean to call you out or anything but I just want you to see that there are good things about pregnancy, just the same as scary.

Like I said in my above post, what else would expect becoming pregnant? Would you just expect that the child would grow without you gaining weight? And if you're old and mature enough to be having sex who the hell cares if everyone knows??? Come on now, be realistic Vendetta.

guh i seriously forgot to say lolz i ddnt mean it to be horrible all throughout the end lolz just the couple of months after the morning sickness went away i felt fine i actualy like being pampered and all my husband and my mum were all so careful around me and stuff and they took care of me lolz actually like it lolz and i loved the part where they started kicking in my belly at first when i felt it for the first time it was hella scary i cried lolz but afterwards it was actually a really beautiful feeling like i know theyre in there and theyre trying to tell me im here mommy im gunna see you soon kinda thing lolz and then when they came out lolz it was scary and all i was like omg its the big day lolz my doctor wanted me to have it naturally but since i wasnt dilating and my cramps were getting more horrible by the minute plus there was a chance if i do deliver naturally the other baby my turn and id have to have a csection so i opted to go thru csection all the way ...ahhh the epidural was horrible i mean i hate needles but everything was worth it in the end when i heard them cry i felt my heart just overflow with joy like i dunno i cant explain it and then the nurses showed me my babies i cried lolz i was on the operating table and i was sobbing my heart out they were beautiful beyond compare ... i thought everything ive been thru this past nine months were all worth it when i looked at them all the pain seems to go away .. guh im so dramatic but thats how it was .. amiana i ddnt mean for it to sound all horrible all throught i just forgot to put the rest in since i was tired last nite and im back to my normal weight lolz [ yes i had to work my frakin ass off lolz] i was 200 pounds when i was preggy and then the babies came out i was 180 and then after i recovered from my csection i started to work out and im back to my normal 120 weight and the stretch marks i dont mind much lolz theyre sorta going away lolz but i dont like wearing bikinis anyways lolz i just have strecth marks on my belly none on my legs so im good with wearing a one piece lolz

Well, even though I love my son very much, I wasnt all emotional after he came out...I had a c-section too. The only reason I cried was because I wanted to have him naturally but they wouldnt let me and I felt like a failure. The umbilical cord was wrapped around his neck so he was stuck and I wouldnt dialate anymore so it was an emergency c-section.

Well, I would love to carry the guy I love's child. for me, that would be like the closest I could get to him. Also, I hear that nothing is sexier to guys than a pregnant woman carrying their baby.

Ugh. I know we all have different opinions of things, but that was rude and uncalled for. You may not want to have children of your own and that's fine, but pregnancy and children are not disgusting. Without pregnancy none of us would be here and we've all been kids once.

I think pregnancy is awesome (not from experience, I just think it's a really cool thing). Carrying another life inside of you? Amazing. I can't wait to have kids. I'm 18 now and I want to be married around 22/23 and have kids around 25. That's my life's ambition, to have a family. But, you know, having an form of serious relationship is on my check list first. *sigh*

oh my goodness! i want kids so bad. i want somewhere between 4-6. i kno its weird but i have a big fam bam and i love it! im definatly going to name my first girl rosalie alice, im hoping i can name my boys emmet, and definatly edward, and i want to name my second girl mackennah esme. I know its sooo weird but whatev...lol

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Maniacsrose wrote:It makes me soo jealous to see little babies with their parent. Especially if it's a single parent.

I really want to have a child in he next five years. I want to find my edward in the next five years as well.

Terrified of finding my edward though. Want a kid, then my Edward...it's so weird I know.

HAha I love that you want a kid before you find your Edward!


I'm trying to be realistic with men. All of the ones in my life pale in comparison to the ones in my head and it's not fair!

omg i know!! My Edward is what im looking for and its so hard to figure out that there is no one that perfect.. but im lookin lol

I've liked kids since I have memory.

I have 3 beautiful cousins I love to stay with... but now they're getting older, the youngest is 8 and the oldest 14 =O

But they made me realize how much I'd like to have a lot of children in a near future.

I'm already too young, I have to do a lot of things before having a baby, like finish college, get a job, buy a house... and the most important find a good guy who wants to be my boyfriend...

A pregnant woman is the most beautiful image you can see...

I wanna have 4 children, I have choosen the names, too.

I'm a little crazy... hahaha