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Sarahhh wrote:A lot of people look down on me when I admit to this: I want children NOW.

I'm engaged to be married, so I don't have to postpone it so i can "find the right man" (I already have).. And I have medical issues that worsen over time, and I want children before they begin to affect my life to an intense extent.

Me and my partner are actually trying for a baby at the moment. It winds me up when I'm told "But you're too YOUNG!".. I'm older than my mother was when she had me (and she'd already had my older brother!), but as times change, so do peoples ideas of what's wrong or right, I guess.

I think as long as your married...or even engaged...i mean...as long as you're financaially stable..I dont see anything wrong with it. Because age really has nothing to do with it. It's about maturity. I know 14 year olds that are more mature than some 30 year olds. (I'm not saying 14 year olds should be having kids or anything...that was just an example)...lol

But yeah...i posted about two months ago some baby names I liked...but I've changed my mind a little on some of them...

Right now, for girls I like:
Cheyenne Love
Hannah Faith

and for a boy:
Chadron Paul


But as I said, I want 8 kids...so its going to take some thinking to come up with more names...I've always kind of liked the idea of two middle names too...so I don't know how that will work out..but I've got PLENTY of time to decide!! lol

Ok, so after reading Breaking Dawn I want to have kids 10 times more than I did before, hehe

I definitely want kids. I have 3 younger brothers and 1 younger sister. So I have always been around kids. My sister was born when I was 11 and I always took care of her.

I want 2 or 3 children

Alright, so I had no desire to have biological children really. The needles and the drugs and the pain involved were always a little too much for me to handle. Assuming a C-Secion was in order, I'd probably kill myself.

But last night I had this dream. I dreamt that I was pregnant. And I didn't want to tell anyone, cause I was scared of what they'd think (I'm only 19...which I suppose is a somewhat acceptable age, but considering I've still got 4 years of college ahead of me...not really...) But anyway, this dream seemed like it lasted a long time. And it was really vivid. Realistic. So when I woke up, I was initially still thinking I was having a baby. But after a couple minutes it dawned on me that that was impossible (virgin here). And I had the most unpredictable reaction. You would think I would be relieved right? Well I was actually really sad. For some reason I really wanted that baby. I don't think I even knew who the father was. But I've sort of been thinking about it a lot today. I really wanted that baby, and it wasn't even ever a real baby...

I have no idea what is going on with me. I was thinking it might be some crazy PMS thing...but I'm not sure that's it. I even had a name picked out. I was really attached to a baby that was never there. Am I going crazy? This dream feels like an actual part of my life that really happened. I've had dreams that seemed real before, but once I figure out that it was a dream I don't dwell on it like this. I think I have issues...

no1cullenator wrote:Alright, so I had no desire to have biological children really. The needles and the drugs and the pain involved were always a little too much for me to handle. Assuming a C-Secion was in order, I'd probably kill myself.

But last night I had this dream. I dreamt that I was pregnant. And I didn't want to tell anyone, cause I was scared of what they'd think (I'm only 19...which I suppose is a somewhat acceptable age, but considering I've still got 4 years of college ahead of me...not really...) But anyway, this dream seemed like it lasted a long time. And it was really vivid. Realistic. So when I woke up, I was initially still thinking I was having a baby. But after a couple minutes it dawned on me that that was impossible (virgin here). And I had the most unpredictable reaction. You would think I would be relieved right? Well I was actually really sad. For some reason I really wanted that baby. I don't think I even knew who the father was. But I've sort of been thinking about it a lot today. I really wanted that baby, and it wasn't even ever a real baby...

I have no idea what is going on with me. I was thinking it might be some crazy PMS thing...but I'm not sure that's it. I even had a name picked out. I was really attached to a baby that was never there. Am I going crazy? This dream feels like an actual part of my life that really happened. I've had dreams that seemed real before, but once I figure out that it was a dream I don't dwell on it like this. I think I have issues...

That is called Breaking Dawnities hahah lol .But seriously that sounds weird sometimes it happens to me too like I have really vivid dreams and I have to like check that im not dreaming anymore that im awake

ps:what was the name of the baby?

I think I called her Cheyenne Love haha

I had my baby almost 2 months ago. He's doing well! He's gettin big.

TwilightVampiress wrote:I had my baby almost 2 months ago. He's doing well! He's gettin big.

Cute!!

Hmm.. I've said to myself that I would really like to have a child by the age of 25-26. Well, a few more years to go for me. LOL. I wonder who the dad will be?:D

TwilightVampiress wrote:I had my baby almost 2 months ago. He's doing well! He's gettin big.

Congratulations!:)

no1cullenator wrote:Alright, so I had no desire to have biological children really. The needles and the drugs and the pain involved were always a little too much for me to handle. Assuming a C-Secion was in order, I'd probably kill myself.

But last night I had this dream. I dreamt that I was pregnant. And I didn't want to tell anyone, cause I was scared of what they'd think (I'm only 19...which I suppose is a somewhat acceptable age, but considering I've still got 4 years of college ahead of me...not really...) But anyway, this dream seemed like it lasted a long time. And it was really vivid. Realistic. So when I woke up, I was initially still thinking I was having a baby. But after a couple minutes it dawned on me that that was impossible (virgin here). And I had the most unpredictable reaction. You would think I would be relieved right? Well I was actually really sad. For some reason I really wanted that baby. I don't think I even knew who the father was. But I've sort of been thinking about it a lot today. I really wanted that baby, and it wasn't even ever a real baby...

I have no idea what is going on with me. I was thinking it might be some crazy PMS thing...but I'm not sure that's it. I even had a name picked out. I was really attached to a baby that was never there. Am I going crazy? This dream feels like an actual part of my life that really happened. I've had dreams that seemed real before, but once I figure out that it was a dream I don't dwell on it like this. I think I have issues...

Don't worry, it's not weird at all.
I've had a lot of dreams where i'm giving birth to my bf's baby and when I wake up and realize they're not real I get really sad.

TwilightVampiress wrote:I had my baby almost 2 months ago. He's doing well! He's gettin big.

Congratulations! He's gorgeous!