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What did you think of Bella being in love with Jacob?

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Postby LookingForAnEdward! on Thu Jul 03, 2008 8:53 am

When Bella admited (because she was just that she didn't know) to herself that she was in love with Jacob. I didn't like that. It crushed me... i loved Jake in new moon, but i can't stand anything (i know pathetic my sick way of worrying about the characters but i do u.u LOL) that would hurt Edward. And when i read the so i kissed him back part, i was so worried for Edward, this was going to kill him, i could not stand that.
I was angry with Bella, not for falling for Jake because (though i don't like saying it) anyone would have fall for someone who treated you the way Jacob treated Bella when she was broken. I was angry at Bella for not thinking the pain this would cause Edward. Yeah i know Jacob tricked her and all, but she did enjoyed it... ooh im sorry now im mad again... i don't like getting into this part of the story.

Anyway i was not surprised. Not at all. Because like someone here already mentioned that even if you were in the deepest kind of denial.
Well i was there, and i wanted to live in the black i didn't want to see what was going on but i did know.

And i knew she loved Jacob much more than she should, and still nowhere enough to change anything.. just to hurt them more (yeah in her same words)
She came to understand that any world without him couldn't possibly be her world

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Postby ugottaluvtwilight on Thu Jul 03, 2008 9:42 am

EDWARD'S LOVE wrote:In all honesty, I did hate bella for about 3 seconds.. but then i thought about it. Put yourself in her position.. YES, EDWARD IS THE LOVE OF HER LIFE.. BUT!... when has a girl ever been able to control who she falls in love with?? I don't know about you.. but most of the girls i know CAN'T. it's not that simple.. and the situation was completely inevitable. We all saw it coming.. YES ALL OF US. [ even if you were in the deepest kind of denial.. it was there] Jacob treated her the way anyone who loved someone would. He picked her up when she had fallen 6 feet under. He was her stone to lean on.. when she had shattered like glass.. Keep in mind that i am TEAM EDWARD... but, i took some time to really think about this part of the story. THOUGH I'D LIKE TO SAY BELLA DIDN'T.... she did fall in love with Jacob. But they love each other enuff to know that it's never gonna be. She's meant for edward.. and OBVIOUSLY [cuz of the imprinting thing..] HE'S MEANT FOR SOMEONE ELSE...


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well there's my opinon ;D



That is true but that is also kind of why I think Jacob would be a better friend because friends are always there to support each other and help each other when they need it.

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Postby Sam_PaniK on Thu Jul 03, 2008 6:52 pm

when i read i was like whaaaaaat??? bella are you stupid?!?! i HATE jacob!!!edward is better!!!
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Postby magnolia on Sun Jul 06, 2008 11:10 am

I'm glad that she finally chose Edward:) However, love for Jacob has got a different nature - it's not so powerful, overwhelming feeling as for Edward. Jacob is a nice guy and I hope that he will find his girl - Good luck, Jake!
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Postby Oh Edwaaard on Sun Jul 06, 2008 7:25 pm

I didn't like it one bit.

Bella and Jacob are better of as friends.

I tried to put my situation in Bella's shoes though. And yes, it IS hard. But I understood her. She was miserable when Edward left her. FOUR months of depression, the poor thing. And Jacob was the only person who brought back her sanity and smile. I give him credit for that.

But Edward's back now. And he'll never leave her again.
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Postby _dazzled on Tue Jul 08, 2008 3:13 am

Here would be my excat thought AND action if I were to read this:

"Well, looks like Bella must have a piece of her brain missing"
*throws book across the room*
*doesnt read book*


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Postby SophiaCullen on Tue Jul 08, 2008 8:40 pm

im not a big jacob fan..or needless to say..i hate jacob..but its not a bad thing to fall in love with someone else..or its not bella's fault either..it is possible to fall in love with more than one person. Its like choosing between yur parents mom or dad. She cant let go of Edward because she knows she cant live without him, i mean, not even for a friggin day..and she cant hurt jacob because he is her best friend..and was there for her when she needed him the most..and understands her like no other, besides Edward.Its like choosing between life death, mom and dad, which is better? Its up to Bella to decide that, and who knows, we might be happy or not of who she chooses in Breaking Dawn..and that reminds me...24 DAYS LEFT TO GO!!
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Postby vampiregirl95 on Wed Aug 06, 2008 6:43 pm

Well, I love Edward and Jacob. I just think that Edward is better for Bella. I would definitely be really upset if Jacob and Bella ended up together.
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Postby Bre4BE8003 on Fri Aug 15, 2008 4:30 pm

well it didn't bother me THAT much since it all worked out in the end well I was happy with the end of it but them being 'in love' with each other only me MORE irritated with they're entire relationship I never did like Jacob or the fact that Bella unconsciously or not kept giving him hope not that he needed anymore encouragement
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Postby Holly =D on Thu Aug 21, 2008 7:28 pm

Being honest... When I was reading New moon & Eclipse, I spent most of the time waiting for Bella & Jacobs kiss. Then that chapter of Eclipse in LaPush when Jake confessed that he loved her and kissed her i was like.. 'Oh..Oh..OH MY GOD!!' and I knew that that was not the end of it.. it couldnt be!
So then at the clearing when she kissed him back and all, i sat there and actually cried about it thinking 'how could she does that to Edward? its going to ruin her' I think i actually said it out loud at one point.

EMBARRASSING!!! lol.

It just hit me real hard because Ive been there. Ive cheated on a boy I loved and I regret it every single day. Anytime I think of it and what Id do if he found out makes me feel horrible. I just didnt want that to happen to bella she didnt deserve it.
But it had to be done. She had to confess, let it out and get it out of the way so the both of them could move on. Its nobodys fault... no one can help how they fall in love with.
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Postby ElleCullen08 on Sat Aug 23, 2008 9:04 pm

It was deffinaltly th worset part in the book i was seriously like "i hate u Jacob Black!!!!!!!!!!" i was so mad poor Edward hes been through so much just to find out the girl he loves is also in love with a werewolf!I also started ,in the begining, to really hate him cause Bella was so happy 2 see him while Edward was just sufering in the coner! but them he imprinted on Renesmee so its all kool now!

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Postby marisal on Tue Aug 26, 2008 3:16 pm

truthfuly, i nearly despised bella for doing that to edward AND jacob, for the longest time i thought she was just selfish and simply wanted everything that she couldn't have and wasn't willing to let go, still, after the second time i read the book, i understood her. It wasn't her fault that she couldn't recognize the love she'd felt for jacob, because she had fallen for him in new moon, but i still had a little grudge that she was hurting both edward and jacob who really didn't deserve it. I think it's necessary for jacob to fall in love with someone else, it'll make it easier once bella's choice happens and she joins the vampires in their immortality.... :?
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Re: What did you think of Bella being in love with Jacob?

Postby pinkelephant on Tue Sep 02, 2008 3:59 pm

it made me mad. irritatted. i was like, geez bella, MAKE UP YOUR MIND AND LEAVE THE WOLF-THING ALONE!!! :twisted:
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Re: What did you think of Bella being in love with Jacob?

Postby marisal on Wed Sep 03, 2008 3:27 pm

i know, i got like that too, it made no sense for bella to go for jacob for me when she could have edward, but she had a lot of stuff going on, still, i can't say i completely forgive her, just that i kinda' sorta' understand her
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Re: What did you think of Bella being in love with Jacob?

Postby Twilight_Addiction on Mon Sep 08, 2008 10:23 pm

I love jacob.
I loved that she fell in love with Jacob.
Do i want them together in the end? No, not really.
But i think having her fall in love with him made a nice little twist that we all didnt expect.
But of course we all knew that Bella and Edward would be together in the end..
I guess you could say that the whole 'bella falling in love with jacob' thing.. actually proved that she loved Edward even more.
Bc she loved Jacob, but she loved Edward MORE.
She cant live without Edward, and he cant live without her.
And i think by her falling in love with Jacob in a way, helped her realize how much she really did need Edward.
Just proving their love that much more.
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